Which Came First: The Chicken or The Egg_Irl? (TheAGPrick)
What causes AGP? What causes fetishes in general? Fetishes are created in response to emotional attachments; the way that something makes us feel. Some fetishes are created in response to childhood trauma, but it doesn't really matter if a fetish is or isn't caused by trauma because the concept remains the same either way. Childhood trauma is caused by emotions that are too difficult and too intense for the underdeveloped mind of a child to properly process. AGP is caused by emotional attachments to the idea of being a woman. These emotional attachments were manifested during childhood.
To understand AGP it helps to first try and understand the way that other fetishes develop. For example, how does one manifest a furry fetish for anthropomorphic animals? Well, I feel like children's television programming and other media directed at children has a direct effect in creating this fetish. Perhaps a young boy liked to watch the cartoon "Tiny Toon Adventures" and he found himself thinking that Babs Bunnie was actually pretty cute and he actually felt attracted to this cartoon rabbit. What emotions might be associated with this attachment to a cartoon bunny? The child might feel guilty or ashamed of himself for finding a cartoon bunny exciting. The idea of something being inappropriate, wrong or dirty is a very common trope in the world of sexual fetishism. All of these emotions combine by being sexually imprinted and hardwired by the brain into a sexual fetish.
Similar to the furry fetish, the media plays a large role in manifesting AGP. Movies like White Chicks, Sorority Girls, Ace Ventura: Pet Detective along with men being feminized and emasculated on television shows on a frequent basis that nobody exposed to television would be able to avoid completely. Kids in the Hall, Saturday Night Live and other sketch comedy shows frequently feature crossdressing men. Speaking of SNL, the first time I came from masturbation was due to a classic SNL sketch featuring a schoolgirl whose panties were always being exposed. Transformation stories in the media such as Freaky Friday and the blueberry girl from Willy Wonka and The Chocolate Factory also fuel AGP and other "transformation" fetishes. I remember a scene from The Simpsons that made me feel weird way before I hit puberty was a scene of Bart Simpson being put into a diaper by the school bullies and then hung up in the air from a basketball hoop on display. The humiliation and embarrassment from such a scenario turned me on back then and it still turns me on now.
Along with the media, another factor that has played a big role in the large increase in AGP has been the women's rights movement. Don't take this the wrong way; it is a good thing that women have equal rights to men, but it also makes the idea of being a woman much more appealing to men. Lots of AGPs can recall having thoughts during their childhood years about wanting to be a girl instead of a boy because of the way women are treated in society and the appealing clothes women get to wear that men don't. Many AGPs believe that being a woman is a better experience than being a man and of course many AGPs are jealous of the physical appearance of women in comparison to men. Basically, the "male privilege" that once existed in society isn't there today for young men in the western world. Whether we like to admit it or not, that male privilege likely helped to prevent many potential cases of AGP.
The Cause of AGP is "Post Nut Clarity"
Think of it like this: AGPs often feel jealous towards women. When they see a beautiful woman, part of them wants to be in a relationship with her and part of them wants to be her. AGPs are often jealous of the femininity beautiful women are free to express, be it in the form of clothing, accessories or simply the female form. Now think about what it would be like for that jealousy to become arousing. Would it be so strange to suggest that some AGPs are masturbating to those same jealous feelings, which are being processed sexually as thoughts about what it would be like to be her?
A lot of people here despise being AGP. A lot of trans women in denial of AGP don't understand that the reason they transitioned is because they despised having AGP. AGP can be distressing because it formed from distressing emotional attachments to the idea of being a woman to begin with. Some AGPs are convinced that transitioning is the only way to resolve this, and they are entitled to that belief, but the way I see this is as if a furry decided they were actually an anthropomorphic dog and decided that they need to be their "authentic self" by becoming something resembling an anthropomorphic dog through risky medical procedures with unknown long term consequences. South Park already did an episode about this many years ago, where Kyle transitioned into a tall, black man while Kyle's dad transformed into a dolphin... in order to be his "authentic self".
Transitioning is an option, and while some of you might consider it to be the only option, I will offer an alternative: simply stop having the distressing thoughts when you are not aroused. Understand that the emotional attachments that formed the basis of your AGP are distressing, and that is what is arousing to you. But after you orgasm these thoughts should immediately be let go of because they are not helpful in any way. Stop judging yourselves so harshly because being AGP doesn't have to make you any less of a man. Your sexuality doesn't have to impact your masculinity. Stop being jealous of women and stop feeling sorry for yourself because you are a man. Stop feeling guilty about being AGP and for the sake of all that's holy stop believing the gender rhetoric.
Thanks for reading :)
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